I really like men. It may seem obvious, but it’s been estimated that perhaps 90% of women don’t actually like men, and 90% of men don’t actually like women.
Does this explain why relationships can be so difficult?
Don’t believe me? Try this: say “truth!” to yourself, and then ask, “Do I really like men/women (whichever sex you’re trying to create/maintain a relationship with) or do I really hate them?” Whichever feels light, if you’re willing to be honest, is what is actually true for you.
Are you dating someone you don’t even like?
If you’re feeling depressed, having just discovered you don’t especially like men/women, take heart! The first step to changing anything is recognizing it is occurring, without judgment. So you’re actually further down the road to changing this–and your prospects for success in your dating and relationships–than you were when you started reading this!
One of the things I love about men is their voices. Check out the soloists in this amazing performance. They’re about 1/3 of the way in. They give me chills down my spine. How about you?
What if you could find you like men more than you thought?